ej, I think you need to let go too. Some people 'collect' friends and lovers and use them as some kind of ego boost when things in their own lives are not going so well. That's what your ex is doing. It's got nothing to do with you. Some people are not very mature when it comes to affairs of the heart. You need to 'recolour' this situation .. see it for what it truly is ... and walk away. It's not easy, especially if you still love her. You need to take some responsibility for this ej, .... she can only hurt you if you allow it. Protect your heart ej, ... you may want to share it again some day!

LL