Jelly Bean-I understand exadtly how you feel, last week I made a decision to leave Mudcat, this was because of all the arguing and trolls and insults.I left for a week then realised I was missing all the good stuff that is here, so I came back, I have met most of the Mudcatters in my local area and I consider them to be friends.I know some people here dont like me, and I am sure somebody will say it is a pity I came back! I think the best thing we can do is ignore the idiots, you are a good person, stick around and dont let the idiots put you off.john