I can only help with good thoughts and prayers -- but know we're sending plenty your way. DO try to be keep thinking positive thoughts and enjoy every minute you have together. I know it's the uncertainty that's the hardest . . .

Again, on a positive note, my father was told *22 years* before he passed away last year to take early medical retirement and "go home and enjoy what little time you have left." The "little time" turned out to be 22 years. (Emphysema and related heart problems were what he succumbed to.)

Our hearts and thoughts are with you.

Bat Goddess