Don't you just hate it when?

You have composed and presented a new song/tune and someone says to you, "that sounds a bit like ....", or "have you heard that one by ..........?"!

I know this done mostly in inocence and with the best intentions, (I think), but the last thing you really want to hear, at that point is that you have consiously or unconciously stolen something, or that someone else has done something similar or 'God forbid', better. (*smiles*)

Actually I was wondering why there were not many new threads and was struggling to find something to start one with, but it would be interesting to see if there are certain phrases that you dread to hear.