What boggles my mind is this....
If you have a bad marriage and you decide it is best not to leave, why don't you go for marriage counseling?
From my experience (it appears) that some men are reluctant to go for marriage counseling. Why? I don't get it. You decide to stay in a miserable marriage yet decide not to work on making it a better marriage. Doesn't make much sense to me. This is your life.

Little Neo who is puzzled