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Thread #40528   Message #582893
Posted By: DougR
30-Oct-01 - 09:13 PM
Thread Name: BS: Musicians who have the bad marriage blue
Subject: RE: BS: Musicians who have the bad marriage blue
GUEST, yeah, me to" "While I do the most embarrassing act a human can do." And that would be?

I can't imagine what kind of act of love one person might do to another that would be embarrassing.

I still believe that anyone that expects to have a perfect marriage, or a perfect relationship is going to be disappointed. It takes two to tango, and the one that is unhappy should ask him/herself, is it conceivable that I, myself, am not the perfect partner, and I might be the key to making this relationship work? Sign me old fashioned, I guess, but when one enters a serious relationship, one has to assume certain obligations, and one of them is committing to preserving the relationship. If you are satisfied that you have done everything YOU can do to make it work, and it still doesn't, then get out of it.

One never realizes until it is gone, I think, how much is lost when even a relatively good relationship is over. My thinking anyway.

DougR