Hi Mudshark 1, . It's easy to say, but don't worry about your age. I'm 42 & thinking over the last year, I've found the men that I've been drawn to are 47, 53 & 54. If you have decided to start a new relationship, disentangle yourself & go for it 100 %, what makes the person who they are is the most important factor by miles. Best wishes, Anne