Thanks Kendall, wendal and all, Your comments are well taken!I've worked hard my whole life in trying to be the best at all I do whether it be a marriage, teaching, a band or a golf game. The problem is that I am getting out of my funk since the divorce four years ago,my mothers death,my daughter's eloping with a former Latin King against my will, and a marriage promised but full of deception. I am like a damaged ship at sea struggling to stay afloat. I made wrong decisions because they were quick one's out of desparation .If I had the chance to move on and find a great lady that would be my soulmate I would do it tomorrow.It's hard to trust again after all I've been through.But you guys are right, I will look ahead and split soon! I have to do it before I lose myself!Thanks for listening you guys!I wish I could meet you all someday. I wrote a lot of songs about the things I had gone through. Ups and downs. I don't need pity, but real people and a real relationship!All The Best, JIM