Beware of this idea of yours, Mudshark: "If I had the chance to move on and find a great lady that would be my soulmate I would do it tomorrow" thinking like that will just get you into another bad situation--when you make your happiness dependent on finding or being with someone else, life will be just another ride down forty miles of bad road. Business about "my daughter's eloping with a former Latin King against my will" is a bad mindset, too--it is her life, not yours, don't tie your happiness to her doing what you want.

I know the drill though, you feel very responsible for people, and you feel like you need to be involved and giving all the time--you need to figure out how to let go of all the "obligations" and "commitments" especially the ones that really only exist in your head--You need some vacation time---maybe permanent vacation time!!