Sinsull - yes, that bothered me; but can you deny that situations like that exist?

As far as I can see Rowling depicted the situation as not-good, not-right.

Was Cinderella sleeping in the ashes and performing as a drudge in her own father's house not disturbing when you look at it? Or Sleeping Beauty being cursed because of a social gaffe? Or Rapunzel being traded for a bunch of radishes and locked in a tower as a reult?