Communication is such a tricky thing. Sometimes we say something to be funny and people hear it as sarcastic or insensitive. We all probably watch the threads where we've posted something to see if anyone has posted a reaction, hopefully positive. Sometimes the worst response is no response at all.

Just rambling here, but I wanted to say something to sympathize with Jenny and don't know what to say. It takes a lot of strength to be unafraid, especially after something bad has happened.

But on the lighter side, even some of the anal-retentive responses from those few whose lives seem to depend on such details are really amusing. Take them lightly. Assume humor.