Pseudolus, I'm very sorry for your family's loss; a grandparent can be such an important person in the life of a child. My own children are very close to my mother, and whilst she and I have had our own difficulties, tyhe unconditional love she & the children have always had for each other is something I'm very grateful they've had the opportunity to experience. I often think about what it would be like for them if anything happened to my parents; please accept my sympathy and condolences, and try to help them through the holiday by reminding them of all the positive memories they'll always have of their time with her.

D.