Yes, Patrish - ditto. Please do get in touch by personal message. There's a lot of us who have been through this, and believe me, you *will* get through it.

It's sensible to get legal advice - but remember that lawyers want to make money. It's their business. If you are in Britain, go to the Citizen's Advice Bureau as well as talking to a solicitor. My local C.A.B. were my first port of call, and they were marvellous: lots of sensible, free advice and encouragement, and a sympathetic shoulder to cry on.

Good luck ! With love and every good wish - Jeanie