it seems to me that jj has a legit complaint. i used to be a member here. i went after too many spoilers on my threads. some were vicious, vitriolic. this used to be a great place, it's changed over time. that is not perception - i know it. those who tell jj that *he's* the problem because he sees what is there are just avoiding the issue. i expect nothing else nowadays. i only visited here to keep in vague touch. this is what i found. ho hum.