If you ask a question, you get an answer, but just like in life, you get ther person whos answering's opinion too, some people here, like in life are sensitive to things they hold dear, and that is differennt in each person, when you have been here a while, you get to know people's sensitivities and I have seen people try to wind certain people up, knowing their question wil illicit a response. I try to steer clear of too much confrontation, others enjoy a good heated discussion, and, like in life, some go in with a knife and can be quite scathing..... Human Nature I think, be yourself, be happy, and forgiving is my attitude to the responses I get, there is always a reason for a persons behaviour and we shouldn't judge them too harshly (well, most of them!!!) Cheers, Lucy