Jeri,

There is a difference between being a bitter person generally, and having bitter feelings specific to a person, circumstance, or event.

I don't believe that trying to change Mudcat regulars behavior is the answer. But if this forum were to be made a music-only discussion forum, it is my belief that many of the problem posters would be gone, and if there were only one type of log-in for using the forum, the major cause of needless contention on this site, could be eliminated.