GUEST Boston Bill, When someone really annoys you, then personal characteristics of that someone are going to appear all the more pronounced. It's reading body language. So if you're unable to see SharonA's criticism as based on a physiological delivery of an unpleasant message, then you need to spend some time studying non-verbal communcations.

We recognize non-verbal communications in all sorts of situations, and not just in humans. They convey everything, not just negative messages. But that's what was being discussed this time.

SRS