I mostly hang out at volunteer game development forums, where I can be useful as well as funny. ;)
They're sort of work-related, as I'm one of the Admins for two of the teams. (Hero6 and The Unknown Hero.) Wish I could create games and game music - and get paid for it! That would be great.

I check SourceForge a lot, too, as well as some php and html forums. Devshed is good, though I tend to just read.

I come here for the friends and the music, and especially the music history, though not as often as when I first joined, last year or the year before.

I also check a few other forums when I have time, and I'm on various mailing lists as well, for spirituality, health, computer stuff, etc.