Oh, Cat, thank goodness for you! I could tell that beneath that bluster there beats a heart of gold! Michael and Tristan are lucky guys. You may know from other threads that I too have a very special son- mine has an autism related condition. It was a big surprise to us- that you went into the situation with eyes wide open and by choice just says so much about you and your guidwyfe! Go on and bluster away- it wouldn't be the 'Cat without you- but I'll be glad knowing more about you now!
Allison