Anna, just go with your heart, and know we are here to back you up wherever that may lead. I have sent you a referral to some closer support via PM.

The good part about realizing this is happening to her, not to you, is that you get to remind yourself to take care of YOU. What do you, as her support person, need in order to be in the best shape possible to be leaned upon? And what practical help can some of your MudBuds offer in that regard?

love,

~Susan