Hi old friend........You're getting all the right advice I can imagine in this thread and we are lucky to have some folks here who have gone through this before. I have no additional advice but can only support what Mary and others have lined out. See the right people now and to hell with the rest. If the boyfriend can't take it, then like kat said, tain't no loss.

Both you and Amy will be at the forefront of my thoughts along with a few other 'Catters going through some tough times as well.   Remember too that you be the "Spud Woman" so offer the Doc an improved image on the beach and I bet you he takes you in right away!!!

LOL....and in this case it means what you used to think it did, Love-On-Line because we all send you all we have. Bless you Darlin'.....This will work out and that's from one who as you know, knows the real power of this community.

Much Love,

Spaw