Bullfrog--perhaps you are correct, but from my point of view there was no joke. Just a rudeness. Yes, the young lady WAS probably gay from birth---her mother says that. From the time she should have been interested in Boyz, she said "Mom, boys are boring......."

Fact: Most "gay/lesbian/queer/whatever/ are in fact that way from birth. It just takes a few years for them to realize it, and some never do actually admit it. They keep trying for a hetero lifestyle and are never happy.

I think it is very, very possible that I too am raising a homosexual daughter--if not that, at least bi. You aren't going to hurt my feelings about this because I have already accpeted that possibilty or probability.

Have you???? What will you do if your child or grandchild turns out different?