As you know, all we anglo Irish are related - one way or another, who else would marry us... so in the spirit of my tribe'sman Johnathan Swift... let me make a modest proposal... eat your bandmates... . It teaches the value of commitment and responcibility in the band. Start with those who tell you, they believe in what the band is about, but are really involved just to learn Irish tunes - and wont commit other than one gig to the next. Recipies apprecaited. Larry