Dear Anna, I just want to lend my voice to all those who understand just how important "anecdotal" advice based on personal experience is. I can't tell you how many times over the last four years on Mudcat, I've been steered in good directions.....from the tiniest (and under the situation you're now dealing with) unimportant music-related issues, to much larger ones with far more serious consequences. I have very little faith in "authority" but a great deal in the wisdom of everyday folks confronting a crisis.

Keep hanging in.

Rick