I guess this is a bit of a divergence from the gist of this thread, but I guess you've got me going now, Mike Miller.

So it was only a few weeks ago that I was told that it's ok for me to not be Jewish because I'm a cute little Shiksa. (A word that I understand is used as a perjorative.) Now, this was told to me by someone I consider to be a friend. Still, if the shoe was on the other foot, and it was a Gentile who said something like "it's ok for you not to be a Gentile because your're cute when you dance the Hora around the campfire", I guess you would consider that anti-Semitism. But it seems that calling me a cute little Shiksa is acceptible.

So I guess you've hit a raw nerve with me when you call everyone who disagrees with you an anti-semite. We're all individuals, and we should be taken as we are. You can't have it both ways.