Not having been there its difficult to judge whther your man was being rude or not by singing choruses loudly in the "wrong kind of voice"...bit i cant help agreeing with him. If one singer is being too dominating you cant helpthinking that it is the other quiet people who should bear the blame, rather than an over=enthisiastic joiner in. I was listening to some 60's club recordings the otherday and was astounded at the huge (and mostly harmonious) chorus sound compared to the strangled murmur which is often all you hear nowadays. Singin with other people is fun isnt it? Or dont peopleenjoy it any more?