GUEST, I'd like to thank you for the apology. I can empathise with what you say...when the proverbial crap is in the fan, it is hard to keep the emotions in check.

I would also like to say that, as CarolC pointed out, your contributions are valuable ones. *Both* sides of the issue need to be understood in order to really know why things are happening as they are.

I hope that your personal crisis is resolved soon.