If you spend all your time wondering about if the situation is "Cool/Uncool" you'll never end up pulling in the first place. When I first got involved with folk music nearly 40 years ago, one of the things that made it attractive was the fact that girls felt that it was alright to go to a pub on their own - if it was for a folk evening !

I suppose that I first got noticed by my partner, Linda (Essex Girl), by singing harmonies to her choruses - but in spite of that she still went out with me !

Seeking twenty plus expenses I went looking for a gig,
But got no offers - just a come-on from a groupie down in Eltham.
I do declare - I was feeling rather randy so I had her then and there......