When approached by people after performing, I assume that a great many people are speaking to "Peg" and not to me. Many people believe you to be the person you are on stage, and I dunno about you all, but I couldn't be "on" all the time. So, in those instances, I don't generally take any advances too seriously. An ale, some chat, and that's about it.

From the other perspective, I have known musicians, and been *very* attracted to them. And in at least a few cases, when they put down the instrument or stop singing, the attraction wears off.

Music is one hell of an aphrodisiac, but I don't think it alone can support a relationship.

Now, if all you're looking to do is get laid, well then...