It is simple Rick

COMMUNICATION!!

Just LISTEN. They have a lot to share. AND they WANT to be HEARD.

Begin a dialogue.

Treat them as peers who have something which will enrich YOUR life...you have the background TO THEN share and connect two - at the most three songs - which reflect the same angst from another era.

PROMISE YOU - THEY WILL BEG, PLEAD, AND PROTEST until they have you back again. The second time they will listen more.

Sincerely,
Gargoyle