you know Jed, that's true about Boston being lonesome v.s. Tucson.
Seems like my wife and I had lots of friends out there and were more social, it wasn't as hard to be, here we know a few people, mostly band members and stuff but everyone seems so isolated.
I guess this is no big news to anyone.
I remember going to many outdoor music parties in tucson with lots of people, drums, electric guitars, banjos, whatever, that would NEVER hapen here.