Good move; you both neatly sidestepped the gist of my comment.
So, here's my point, rephrased.

Rationalists who display annoyance about something like (letting a person know that s/he is being prayed for), amuse me. Rationally, you should just ignore it. After all, your emotional response affects only you.

I repeat: Relax. Ignore it. Go to another thread. It's not worth stressing yourself.