Facing it is the hardest part. For most of my life, I considered this "normal" and wondered why things seemed so easy for other people. Now I know why. But it is still going to be a lot of work to heal.

Not expecting the spring pollen to be this bad was the worst, so the setback had double effect - the usual effects plus surprise. Now the skylight is closed, at least until the owner gets back, and I have enough energy to clean the house, thank goodness. Don't know if I will be able to continue living here when she gets back though, so am exploring options for that, too.

ET - where does your mother live??? I'd be great for that!