Susan said: "...My idea of heaven is, it's a place where everyone there has GOTTEN OVER IT, whatever "it" was, to them".

That's an excellent point...but, I'd like to gently say that it really does come across as if you did not take your own advice.

As for the anonymous Guests posting, and what it says over at the newsgroup mentioned, and how it seems to have inflamed at least a few here.

Why do we need to judge others to find what works for us? If the rec.music.folk is better for some, great! Wow, I'm glad that they found it. If reading the music threads only here is better for some, hey! That's great, go for it. If being here and enjoying the comraderie is what brings some who have less knowledge, wonderful! It's an opportunity for us to learn as well. If someone is more knowledgeable, that's great! Teach those of us who have not yet learned what you know, but why not impart it without judging us as inferior? That is the only way we'll learn and can be able to pass that torch along to others.

I just don't see how anger will solve anything. And I mean, anything, anywhere, at any time, for any reason. Rather, it only makes things all the worse for everyone *to include* the one who is angry.