Susan, excellent points!

I can say that there are most definitely times when I am not at my diplomatic best, that is for certain. I think the idea of a preface is a great idea, especially when venting to and with friends. I think it's wonderful to feel safe with friends, and know that they will be there after you've gotten it out of your system, and prefacing it allows them to know that it is such a moment, and not to take offense.

The unfortunate fact, though, is that once the emotions get elevated with those with whom that level of support and friendship do not exist, it's all the harder to bring those on the other side of an issue back down, and so, it's all the harder to get ones own emotions back in check as well. I know people who are very good at helping others to make light of just about anything...I know I am not one of these folks, so for me, I need to keep it in check no matter what (not that I always succeed).

I have taken to walking away from my PC whenever I am about to lose it. So far, so good, though I know this may not always work. We all have our moments...me as much (or moreso) than anyone else.