As a member of a new group, just now really trying to find places to play, I've run into both types of fellow musicians, sharers and non-sharers.

In my experience, the non-sharers seem to be less confident of themselves, as if we would be taking something away from them. Sharers seem to be unfazed by other groups coming along, in fact, they encourage, advise and introduce, and offer whatever help they can.

I am perfectly capable and willing to get my own shows, and don't expect others to do that for me. But it's hard for me to fathom the notion that sharing knowledge could somehow ruin my chances for performing, succeeding, whatever.

I may be naive, perhaps, but I will be one of the sharers.

Jeri, I thought your earlier point about competition was right on the mark.