Micca, your reply reminds me of that joke: "Why is it called a waist?" "Cos you could fit another pair of breasts on there".

Skipjack, you nailed it on the head! "As to lurve-making, the bisection of look and feel (if you leave the lights on!) is fulfilling in love, and ultimately repellant (from my male perspective, anyway) in 'casual' sex."

Hmmm, from this woman's perspective, it's preferable if the bloke's arse isn't smaller than mine, as usually seems to be the case (not that my arse is sizeable, just that I seem to keep sharing beds with kipper-hipped men).