I hate the jeans problem!!!! I am a size 6, and I get that too, the waist is huge if it fits the hips.

Wish they would make clothing for people with a womanly figure. If women have boyish hips, they can buy men's jeans, sheesh.

And why do jeans makers always make it so you can't actually PUT anything in the pockets unless you go to a larger size? Sheesh.

About the bras - some companies size their bras larger to make large women feel smaller, and some size them smaller to make small women feel larger. Seriously. (Yes, it's silly.)

I definitely prefer men with some flesh on them. When you're kinda skinny, you don't want to hug bony people, you get too many bruises that way. *g*