Whenever I have screamed "I can't take it any more!" to the universe, the bullshit has always stopped, and the changes I needed have begun. I think you just screamed. Let's see what happens over the next few days.

An option I want to mention is that if you can store your stuff and just come, even for a visit, we can go back and forth and get stuff in batches every couple of weeks. I am not portable at the moment-- but I expect to be more portable over the rest of the summer.

Neil, is there any chance you could get her across?

~Susan