geez, Mrrzy...if I didn't know it was you I would have though this was a troll...had a long discussion with someone the other day about whether people choose or are consigned to their sexual behavior. I maintain that whatever it is you should not feel like you have no other choices!! like not be a victim of your sexuality or your sexual preference or your sexual choices, thoughts feelings or whatever....I don't believe we really know "the" reasons for our sexual behavior, thoughts and feelings... hg