Well as for my meno moment. I must say that with out hrt I am one psycho bitch! Never mind the hot flashes, those I can live with. Its the threat of bodely harm to those I love, plus the out of control bleeding. I have tried soy(what a friggen joke!)And herbal teas ,rubs, tinctures, and blind hope. My Doctor is a very careful Man, and I trust him. He watches and test me all the time. So far I am 100% better. This just proves that everyone reacts differently. Plus, I am royally sick of healthcare studies going one way and then another!! Anyway I am not going to stop taking HRT till my Doctor says I should stop. Dragonmom, on a rip.