I'm reminded of all the hoo-rah and stink that goes on in workplace regarding men's (theoretical)comments about women - but when I complain about the constant man-bashing that actually occurs I'm told "get a sense of humour" - with the additional comment - "men - they're so childish - can't take a joke"

"If you recall a time when you were the outsider, you will no doubt remember the same urge to blend in and ignore offensive comments or behavior."

Hell no!