I just got this in an EM from another friend: Love like you've never been hurt and Dance like no one is watching."

I believe the reference a few threads back is to Heisenberg's uncertainty principle--You cannot observe both the speed and location of a particle. It is similar to the rule I try to get my friends suffering from GHAB [Gotta Have a Boat] to follow. Have someone else give you the pros and cons, then decide for yourself. Keep on goin', gal.