Gee guys, three cheers for clarity and purpose!

LH, what people call permanence is of course not permanence at all; it is simply the endless re-creation and renewal of an honest fidelity and a transcendant affinity between two souls.

. This is a different thing than trying to freeze-frame a situation. Those who have built groups, families, or couple which really last have done so by understanding that it is the on-going new recreation that does it; the minutethat stops, all bets are off and entropy is loose upon the landsacape of the heart.

However there are far more people around who don't see things that way and would love to pursue a stuck image of how it should be in a sorta fixated way and I can easily see how you would be leery . In any case it is your affair, mon vieux, and I wish you great happiness at it. Oh, and thank you very much for the exposition. :>)

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