Using the filter box on the main thread page with the word "funeral," and setting the age filter box to "All." You will get a whole BUNCH of threads, among them:

Tune Req: Festive music for funerals

Req: Wake songs (NOT Funeral Songs!)

What song do you want at your funeral?

BS(sorta?)/Help-Playing for funerals

Help: Funeral hymn

Music and Poems for a Funeral

Help: Funeral Song

I'm supposed to be at a funeral...

Funeral Tunes, songs that heal

~Susan