Susan...Because of some of the parallels I always think of John when I'm singing (I'll keep the old place) Till The Children Come Home...couldn't sing it at all for a while. It's a great song, I don't know who wrote it...Aussie for sure.
Other than that, I've nothing specific...partly, I think, because I've not "synthesized" the pain into specific music yet. Maybe next year.... Besides, if I'm going to have to sing in front of a big crowd I'd be afraid of losing it if the song was too personal...I'm still trying to work up the nerve to comply with a request to sing for tasters at a local winery!
Will keep looking thru these threads...thanks again.