It's the little things that have been taken away as well, like the birthdays, anniversaries etc. My sister in law got married in 1999, celebrated one year in 2000 and on her second anniversary, she and her husband spent the day watching news reports as many of us did. There was a woman in the news recently who lost her husband that day and it was their anniversary as well. How can you feel sorry for yourself when others have lost so much more? But we do and that's ok....It's very somber today at work. Later on we will call my sister-in-law (she lives in Colorado) and wish her the best, but it won't be easy....

Take Care All,
Frank