Aye, we've all been there. Something occurs that is of extreme importance to us or our loved ones and we get so involved with dealing with and helping others cope that all at once, three days go by and you think, "Oh heck, I forgot to call so-or-so and tell him/her the news. I know I've been there, done that, burned the teeshirt! Like Kat says, keep up the good vibes, in whatever media you generate them and every litter little bit helps! Send what ya can, it's all appreciated, I'm sure!