Dear AnnaP: Don't feel bad or discouraged. Your exceptional generosity and hospitality will be rewarded many times over by the many good times and good friends you will enjoy. Earlier, I indicated that I would like to come to NJ from OK. At that time I did not know that your planned dates conflicted with Mudstock99, which I also plan to attend. So be it! When I'm next planning to be up NJ way, I shall contact you to see if we may share some music. There are all too few opportunities for some of us 'catters to meet and sing with others. We must go where we can, when we can. By the way, Mudstock is only 1369 miles from Ada, OK, while Sea Bright NJ is approx 1500 miles.