Bill and I have been "away" because of a computer malfunction. Don't need to say how scared we've been for the 'Paw or how relieved that he is probably out of danger now!

About financial help -- Been there, done that, at the time of my heart transplant. I suggest that we ask Karen and 'Paw NOT to acknowledge our gifts and letters, unless they just have something special to tell us. Why put another burden (of effort if they get around to it, of guilt if they don't) on them?

Our friends started a fund for us, but mostly kept it anonymous. It took them a long time to get us to agree to it. But it was a godsend. I met one woman at the hospital whose friends held bake sales and flea markets and car washes, and raised $100,000 for her transplant. Somehow that helped me keep things in perspective, and maybe it will do the same for Pat and Karen.

This community is a fine place to live. Blessings and thanks to you all. - Rita Ferrara